The afternoon felt like I was stuck in that movie Groundhog’s Day.
At this point my 8 week old was starting to fall into some semblance of predictable routines. He woke for the day around the same time, stayed up for a while, cat napped the rest of the morning, and then usually took a longer nap around 1 or 2.
At about 1:30 it seemed pretty obvious that he was getting tired and needed to take that longer nap. I finished up lunch and started looking forward to spending the afternoon catching up on house work (bad move – never count those chickens!).
Then began the seemingly endless cycle. Nurse, rock, lay down baby. Try to start working on something. Baby wakes up 10 minutes later. Play with smiley baby, rock cranky baby, nurse again, lay down. Baby wakes up 3 minutes later. Rock baby. Baby falls asleep in arms. Moments before attempting the lay down baby’s eyes open wide and he smiles as if to say “gotcha.”
Oh, you thought I was sleeping, mom?
I tried retreating to the bedroom, where he does such a good job sleeping at night. I rocked. I nursed. I set him in his bed. Happy, sleepy, and sucking on a paci.
I ran downstairs and cleaned the dining room for 15 minutes like a mad woman while listening to my baby cry over the monitor. Mom guilt crept in (I never let big brother cry like that this young!).
I climbed the stairs to the bedroom and peeked over the side of the crib. My good natured little boy smiled at the sight of his mommy. He wanted to be happy and play, but what he really needed was sleep. I tried one more time.
He drifted off to sleep.
Eyes pop open. “Just kidding mom!”
It was 4 pm. I finally gave up.
I carried him downstairs and big brother entertained him in the swing while I managed to finish washing the dishes.
But who could be mad at this face?
I had begun the work of cleaning the kitchen that morning when I started unloading the dishwasher at breakfast…
…and had finished just in time to start cooking dinner.
Sometimes life with little ones feels like a treadmill. Walking and walking, but going nowhere.
Like life is on repeat. Feed, clothe, soothe. Discipline, teach, correct. Walk, walk, walk – still in the same place.
Didn’t I just feed you?
So often it feels like there is so much I want to do in life, but instead I spend the day just getting the bare minimum done. If that.
But is that really the case?
Let’s rewind this day back to the beginning again.
The day began with a late start due to extra morning snuggles with my two little boys. (Pouring into K’s love language – physical touch)
I fed my son breakfast, read him his Bible, and helped him with some preschool activities (Enriching his body, spirit, and mind)
I spent the afternoon caring for a baby who needed a little extra TLC. (Meeting his need for attachment and teaching him that mommy loves him, hears him, and can be trusted)
Sleepy snuggles while doing computer work? Could life get any better?
All that and I managed to do the dishes? I’ll call that a win.
It’s all in your perspective.
That.. and a lot of grace.
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